Feedback is an interesting thing that many people don’t understand.  It can be shown in a very simple example…  You are washing your car one Sunday and your neighbor walks up and says “Nice car but you missed a spot.”

What does that make your neighbor? 

A good samaratan? 

A noble citizen trying to correct all the wrongs in the world?

Or a jerk who just gave you unsolicited feedback?

Different scenario…  You ask, “Hey!  What do you think about my car?”  and the neighber says, “Nice car but you missed a spot.”  Now what is he?